Reframing Rejection, Abandonment, Betrayal, and Injustice

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If everything in life is a matter of perspective, what is the light within the greatest wounds and human pains, and how can they actually be seen not as wounds needing healing, but as steps that support our path to ascension and the faster manifestation of our dreams?

When you are consciously manifesting your life, there are always significant portals of transformation, and within these portals, chaos can be interpreted in many different ways.

An Example:

My friends went out for dinner and didn’t invite me.

Rejection? Abandonment? Betrayal? Injustice?

My nervous system tried to understand, what happened? Why did this happen? And my inner child, who seeks connection, asked, “What did I do wrong? Was I forgotten?”

But this time, my trained mind realized, I wasn’t invited because my energy was no longer compatible with theirs.

And despite the sadness of the transition process, the insecurity, and fear of the unknown… I also felt the excitement of realizing that this event was actually making space for something new to enter.

Having a higher, broader perspective on the situation, without attachment, allows these inevitable transitions to be smoother and lighter, letting go of what needs to leave to make room for what is yet to come.

These inevitable transitions happen when you decide that you are willing to do whatever it takes to live your dream life, even if it means leaving behind your past life and everything—people, habits, places—that are not compatible with this dream life.

And when you change the story you tell yourself about these situations that occur during these periods of inevitable transition, the situation shifts from being one of rejection, abandonment, betrayal, and injustice to becoming a great blessing.

This reminds me of a dream I had in 2020, where a man in a black hat and I were admiring a large crater, and he said to me: “Don’t worry, every hole gets filled sooner or later.”